Is there a right way to discipline?

Whatever methods you choose, you need to be creative and consistent.

'Why don't you just listen?'
'How many times must I repeat myself?'
'Those ears are just ornaments!'
'Stop ignoring me!'

These probably sound familiar. But as your child grows older so you need to be more creative in the way you discipline.

Is there one right way to discipline? The answer is NO. As with everything in life, it is different strokes for different folks, and you need to find a concept and technique that resonates with you and implement it. After all, no-one else has to live with your child but you.

If you are not a believer in smacking, then below are some other options you may want to consider, bearing in mind that whatever you decide:

• you must be consistent
• as parents you must present a united front
• try and react rationally and not emotionally
• discipline from a space of respect and not out of fear
• choose age appropriate discipline, only then will it be effective
• before instilling discipline ensure that boundaries are explained and rules established.